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The challenge with breakdowns is often that they arrive unexpectedly, and at full volume, loaded with emotional baggage, which makes it hard to dial back. I’ll […]

Pretty much every person has two ways of being. Authentic and inauthentic. Another way to think about it is the idea that each of us has […]

Are your beliefs both reliable and consistent with your experience as lived? When two dramatically incompatible beliefs come into direct contact, how do you resolve the […]

The arrow of time goes in both directions. The difference between the past and the future, is that you have no memory of the future. The […]

We were talking the other day about the amazing relationship we have and this idea came up. Think of your relationship as if it exists on […]

Through the course of my life, I have taken a bit of a Taoist approach to life. When I was in college, practicing Kung Fu and […]

When I meet with a couple who is struggling to sort through the up’s and down’s of their marriage, I always being with one simple question. […]

Embarking on a journey to explore ourselves as sexual creatures has been the most rewarding experience of my life. Both Petra and I have experienced transformations […]

Modern life is filled with people breaking their agreements all over the place. The general lack of integrity is almost a cultural crisis. Public figures who […]