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We live during an interesting time. A phrase, wrongly thought to be of ancient chinese origin, that applies is, “May you live during interesting times.” It’s […]

I hear this all the time. It could be, “I’m sure she is cheating” just the same. The point is that there is a breakdown in […]

I was thinking about how context frames ones life this morning. The thought that occured to me is that by and large, people hold very disempowering […]

I am a scientist at root, so my inquiry is always in the realm of seeking understanding. With that in mind, I am trying to get […]

Years ago, when I met Petra, I told her that “I am a stand for your freedom, power and full self-expression!” She thanked me noting that […]

The challenge with breakdowns is often that they arrive unexpectedly, and at full volume, loaded with emotional baggage, which makes it hard to dial back. I’ll […]

Pretty much every person has two ways of being. Authentic and inauthentic. Another way to think about it is the idea that each of us has […]

Are your beliefs both reliable and consistent with your experience as lived? When two dramatically incompatible beliefs come into direct contact, how do you resolve the […]

The arrow of time goes in both directions. The difference between the past and the future, is that you have no memory of the future. The […]