Relationship Coaching for Individuals and Couples

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Relationship Coaching for Individuals and Couples

Fast Track Your Relationship

Whether you’re seeking to build a strong relationship, explore new dimensions of intimacy, or break through personal barriers, my coaching—grounded in the principles of Hard Married—offers the tools to help you succeed. Just as Eddie experienced breakthroughs in both his business and personal relationships, and Sarah found clarity and empowerment in exploring new aspects of her identity, coaching can guide you toward the relationship and personal growth you desire.

I take a customized, holistic approach that blends practical insights with emotional and personal development. Together, we’ll uncover limiting beliefs, push through barriers, and create the space for you to thrive in your relationships and life. Whether you’re working on communication, intimacy, or self-awareness, coaching will provide the support and guidance to make meaningful, lasting changes. Like Sarah, who discovered a deeper understanding of herself and what she desires in a relationship, or Eddie, who forged a loving relationship with his parents for the first time, you’ll have the opportunity to grow in ways you may not have imagined possible.

Your journey to the relationship of your dreams starts here.

Communication Skills

Develop deeper, more effective ways of communicating to foster connection and understanding.

Objective Insights

Receive clear, unbiased perspectives on your relationship dynamics.

Emotional Intimacy

Build trust and emotional closeness through intentional exercises.

Conflict Resolution

Learn to handle disagreements productively, turning breakdowns into breakthroughs.

Self-Awareness

Uncover and address personal patterns, leading to conscious choices in relationships.

Relationship Growth

Create space for mutual growth while maintaining individual integrity.

Break Negative Cycles

Break free from destructive patterns and foster healthier behaviors.

Tools for the Future

Build a toolkit of strategies to navigate relationship challenges confidently.

Coaching Services

Individual Coaching

Focused on personal growth in relationships, helping you better understand your desires, boundaries, and communication style.

Couples Coaching

Designed to help couples build stronger communication, resolve conflicts, and deepen intimacy.

Custom Packages

Choose between a single session, 3-session package, or an in-depth 6-month program, tailored to your specific relationship needs.

Coaching for Individuals

Spend an hour on the phone with Saffer on a weekly basis getting specific guidance as you put in place the structure needed to make your relationship extraordinary.

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Coaching for Couples

First, there needs to be a conversation with you both to determine the scope of the coaching. After we agree the scope, in a similar fashion to coaching for individuals, the structure is weekly telephone calls to guide you both as you bring your relationship into the realm of your desire.

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Eddie in Seattle says,

“I recently had the opportunity to work with Saffer as my business performance coach while building my real estate property management and development company. Initially, I was hesitant about hiring a coach, but this decision has proven to be one of the best I’ve made for my business. Saffer’s expertise in uncovering limiting beliefs was invaluable. He guided me through these challenges while respecting my decisions, even when they differed from his insights. This balance between support and respect created a productive coaching environment. What stood out most was his customized approach. He was genuinely invested in my success—not just as a business owner, but as an individual. He knew precisely when to challenge my beliefs and when to give me space, fostering an atmosphere of growth without pressure. I can honestly say that for the first time in my adult life I have a workable and loving relationship with my parents.The coaching experience felt akin to a practical MBA crash course, equipping me with essential skills in running and building a business. Saffer’s extensive background and knowledge provided me with insights that were both actionable and relevant to my specific situation. In summary, I cannot recommend working with Saffer enough. His ability to blend personal development with business strategy has made a significant impact on my journey, and I am grateful for the opportunity to learn from him. If you get the chance to work with Saffer, seize it!”

“PETRA and Saffer have been amazing guides into the Kink world. Their Task-A-Day program has granted me the personal growth I needed to see positive change in my life. I had to break through some barriers with myself and acknowledge area’s of my needs that I did not know existed. It was all worth it! I now have a better idea of who I’m looking for and what I want in a relationship, in myself, and in the kink community. Not only did they provide feedback and push me farther to get deeper answers, they supported me in other areas of my life as well, to ensure my success in the program. I’m excited for the next period of my life, to keep working on myself, and to implement my new learnings into my every day life. Thank you, PETRA and Saffer, for leading me into this amazing new world and preparing me for the relationship that I dream of.”