“This book was not an easy journey—but it was absolutely a worthwhile one. The exercises pushed me out of my comfort zone in the best way, requiring deep reflection and emotional honesty. The thought processes it encouraged and the self-work it inspired opened up a whole new life for me. It helped me examine what I truly want in a relationship and what aligns with my most authentic self.
I’m grateful for how it guided me—not to the “perfect” relationship by someone else’s standards, but toward the relationship that’s actually best for me. If you’re ready to look inward, challenge your assumptions, and reshape your relationship patterns, this book is a powerful tool.” Sarah B 5/2025
“I like what I’ve read so far. It’s clear, to the point, and most importantly, interesting to an outside observer. I want to know what you have to teach me next!” – Scout 5/25
“This is a fantastic fucking book for people who are coming out of midlife crisis, like you and Petra were.” – Fleishman, 5/25
“Good relationships require work. Great relationships require intention. Saffer and Petra take you through their own journey, unapologetically, in the hopes that their story and their intentionality might help others achieve similar levels of a beautifully crafted life inside relationships. The exercises included in this book help the reader hone in on what will work for them to best understand their partner, and to manifest what they want for themselves and for the folks they love the most. This book is humorous, honest, and vulnerable. If you are looking for a love manifesto that can help bring awareness and intention into your own life and your relationships, then this book is for you.” – Nili, 11/24