How to Get What You Want
July 10, 2025
I am very proud to be able to post that the book I have been working on for so long is finally live. You can purchase it here
I would really appreciate your feedback once you dig your teeth into it.
I express my thanks to my beautiful sexy wife for her support and encouragement, and her contribution, not just as a subject, but in that she truly wants people to have what we have – a deeply loving relationship that we find inspiring every day. A life of happiness and joy and sexual pleasure.
I extend my heartfelt thanks to Scout Shannon, who is a remarkable editor. If you are writing a book and need an editor, then let me know and I will connect you with Scout.
Dirk Hooper is the cover artist and I extend my thanks to Dirk for the way he helped me along the way with cover art, and interior art and this website.
Thanks too to the various readers who made a contribution to the early copy. Nili, Sarah, Eddie, Mako, Pincushion, and others. And thanks to the readers who are still having a read for the purpose of review.
Part of thinking about who is a good candidate for this book had me realize that it’s for everybody. People in an existing relationship and well as those trying to create a relationship. Couples with an already great relationship can make their relationship extraordinary, and those who are having relationship challenges can use the book to find a path to something better. Much better.
It makes a great gift too. If your girlfriend has shared with you how her and her husband are not on the same page, give her Hard Married to help her make her relationship thrive.
Share the link with your friends and family [ https://www.lulu.com/shop/petra-and-saffer/hard-married/paperback/product-57yqekr.html?page=1&pageSize=4 ] as a way of giving them access to the best relationship they have ever had.
Lady Petra and I thank you!
